The Father's Day Index 2011: Dad is worth $20,415 around the house

You may think Dad is tops, but an analysis of federal labor statistics shows that his work around the house probably isn't worth nearly as much as Mom's. The tasks we associate with fatherhood simply don't have the same cash value as jobs performed by mothers.

We took a look at the duties a typical father might have and what it would cost to hire outside help to accomplish them. (See tasks and compensation below, based on Bureau of Labor Statistics data.)

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Father's Day IndexThe value of Dad’s domestic duties over the course of a year is $20,415, compared to the $61,436 you would have to pay to have someone pick up the jobs commonly handled by moms. From barbecuing to tinkering with the car to acting as a handyman, the domestic labor we think of as belonging to Pop could be done for just 33 percent of the cost of hiring someone to perform all the cooking, driving, child care and housekeeping attributed to mothers. (See Insure.com’s Mother’s Day Index.)

Is Dad a loafer?

If this makes the modern dad seem like a loafer, note that his worth at home really hasn't changed much over the past decade. In 2000, in same duties were worth $16,279. According to the Bureau of Labor Statistics, the increase from then until now has been only slightly above the rate of inflation.

Yet those figures ignore the intangibles. Statisticians don’t track the value of a well-caught pop fly, or the slaying of edge-of-the-bed monsters.

Giving fathers the benefit of the doubt, we came up with a variety of extra jobs that he might handle. They include changing flat tires, coaching sports teams, telling stories about "the good old days" and laying down the law to misbehaving youngsters. Throw in pay as an audio and video technician -- to cover his penchant for hogging the TV remote control -- and it brings his total contribution to $51,208.

That's a big improvement, but still only 83 percent the value of tasks commonly performed by mothers.

Protecting Dad with life insurance

Despite their lower value in the domestic labor market, outside the home men remain dominant. Women make just 78 cents for every dollar a man earns, according to the Census Bureau. Over his lifetime, an average man earns $434,000 more than an average woman.

That may be the reason fathers have a slight edge when it comes to having group or individual life insurance. LIMRA, a global life insurance research and consulting firm, says 61 percent of men owned life insurance policies in 2010, compared to 57 percent of women. The average amount of insurance coverage purchased for women is about 69 percent of that purchased for men.

People who skip life insurance coverage often cite "other financial priorities, especially in these bad financial times," says Cheryl Retzloff, senior research director for LIMRA.

Married couples are less likely to seek life insurance quotes for wives than for husbands, says Retzloff. In reality, it's important for both parents to have life insurance, especially when you consider how a typical family could be impacted by lost wages if either spouse died.

"When we ask households why they buy life insurance, the top two reasons are income replacement and to pay final bills and expenses," she says.

Dad trapped by an outdated image

Donald N.S. Unger, author of Men Can: The Changing Image and Reality of Fatherhood in America, says there is a good reason why Dad is not more active on the domestic scene. Often both parents are trapped in an outdated concept of men as breadwinners and women as homemakers.

"At this point what women really need is for men to be doing more at home," Unger says. "It also means giving territory up, which is psychologically hard. Even if you are overworked, you don't want to give up ground."

Although dads are cheaper to replace in terms of household duties, they remain highly important as protectors, providers and creators of stability, says Margaret J. King, director of the Center for Cultural Studies & Analysis in Philadelphia. "Dad is wired to deal with the outside world. The ideal dad deals with threats to our well-being."

The right direction

Amy McCready, founder of Positiveparentingsolutions.com, a parenting education website, says she sees dads gradually "moving in the right direction" by taking on more duties at home. In the mid-20th century, fathers were expected to provide financially for their families and leave the rest to Mom.

"That is not the measure of a successful dad anymore," McCready says. "Now it is, 'What kind of a relationship do you have with your kids? Are you someone your kids want to confide in and hang out with?'"

OK, so dads don't always pull their weight around the house. But many dads are exceedingly good at play, the fun part of parenting, stresses Michele Borba, an educational psychologist and contributor to NBC's “Today” show. Dads have a higher tolerance for the disorder children often crave.

A big part of a father’s job is helping us build good childhood memories while occasionally looking the other way. "What they do in some ways is priceless," Borba says. "It is the tickling and throwing kids up in the air. And they are not so worried about you getting dirty."

The Father’s Day Index: Dad’s worth this year

Dad Job - 2010 Earnings & Data BLS occupation used Hours per week/weeks per year BLS Mean hourly wage Annual Dad value
Barbecuing Cooks, All Other 3 hrs./52 weeks $11.82 $1,844
Driving Taxi drivers and chauffeurs 9 hrs./52 weeks $11.82 $5,532
Helping with homework Teachers and Instructors, All Other 10 hrs./40 weeks $18.72 $7,488
Family finances Accountants and auditors 0.5 hrs./52 weeks $33.15 $862
Mowing the lawn, landscaping, snow removal Grounds Maintenance Workers, All Other 2 hr./52 weeks $13.92 $1,448
Moving furniture Laborers and freight, stock, and material movers, hand 30 mins/month $12.36 $74
Car maintenance Automotive service technicians and mechanics 20 hours a year $18.36 $367
Coaching a team Coaches and scouts 40 hours/year $17.28 $691
Scout leader Recreation Workers 50 hours/year $12.15 $608
Assembly of toys, bookshelves, etc. Assemblers and Fabricators, All Other 30 hours/year $14.92 $448
Pest removal (spiders, gross bugs) Pest control workers 4 hours/year $15.62 $62
Handyman Maintenance and repair workers, general 4 hrs/month $17.61 $845
Plumber Plumbers, Pipefitters, and Steamfitters 30 mins/month $24.21 $145

Total: $20,415

Dad add-ons

Dad Job - 2010 Earnings & Data BLS occupation used Hours per week/weeks per year BLS Mean hourly wage Annual Dad value
"Back when I was your age" Historians 15 mins/week $27.81 $362
Child allowance distribution Compensation and Benefits Managers 10 mins/week $46.61 $405
Hogging the remote control  Audio and Video Equipment Technicians 10 hours/week $21.38 $11,118
Inspecting Vehicle Damage Claims Adjusters, Examiners, and Investigators 10 mins/week $28.94 $251
Little League & Pop Warner Dads Agents and Business Managers of Artists, Performers, and Athletes 3 hours/week $43.19 $6,738
Loitering at Home Depot on Saturdays Business Operations Specialists, All Other 2 hours/week $32.55 $3,385
Golfing Athletes and Sports Competitors 1 hour/week $41.99 $2,184
Fishing Fishers and Related Fishing Workers 30 mins/week $13.41 $349
Laying down the rules Legislators 30 mins/week $18.50 $481
Threatening punishment Judges, Magistrate Judges, and Magistrates 1 hour/week $50.67 $2,635
Sending kids to their rooms Correctional Officers and Jailers 15 mins/week $20.57 $267
Finding out what the kids are up to Private Detectives and Investigators 1 hour/week $22.99 $1,195
"Go see who's at the door" Security Guards 15 mins/week $12.92 $168
"Hold my purse" Baggage Porters and Bellhops 30 mins/week $11.40 $296
Taking out the trash Refuse and recyclable material collectors 5 mins/day $16.50 $502
Fixing the lawn mower Outdoor Power Equipment and Other Small Engine Mechanics 15 mins/week $14.80 $192
Repairing bikes Bicycle Repairers 10 mins/week $11.77 $102
Changing tire on the side of the road Tire Repairers and Changers 2.31 mins/week $11.98 $24
Washing the car Cleaners of Vehicles and Equipment 15 mins/week $10.74 $140

Total: $30,793

Grand total: $51,208

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